712: Clarifying Values for a Workplace People Love, with Anne Chow

Dave Stachowiak [00:00:00]:
We all know the importance of values, but it’s often hard to know where to begin when clarifying them with a team. In this episode, how to align on values that support a great culture and move towards a vision. This is Coaching for Leaders episode 712.Production Credit: Produced by Innovate Learning, maximizing human potential.

Dave Stachowiak [00:00:27]:
Greetings to you from Orange County, California. This is Coaching for Leaders, and I’m your host, Dave Stachowiak. Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. And this weekly show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Think a word that so many leaders think about, have heard, know the importance of is the word values. It is central to how we show up, how we interact, how we behave in the workplace, the culture of our teams, and yet it is one of those words that’s so hard for us to wrap our heads around and to have a good starting point for how do we establish and benefit from the values that are so important to our teams. Today, I’m so pleased to be able to welcome such an experienced leader who will help us to paint the picture a bit of where do we begin with values and how do we help values to work for us.

Dave Stachowiak [00:01:22]:
I’m so pleased to welcome Anne Chow. She was the CEO of AT and T Business and the first woman of color CEO in AT&T’s a 140 year plus history responsible for leading a $35,000,000,000 global operating unit of over 35,000 people. She was named to Fortune’s most powerful women in business twice, and today serves on a number of boards, including Franklin Covey, 3 m, and CSX. She is the author of Lead Bigger: The Transformative Power of Inclusion. Anne, what a pleasure to have you on.

Anne Chow [00:01:56]:
Thank you so much, Dave. It is my pleasure to be here with all of you.

Dave Stachowiak [00:01:59]:
There is there’s so many really beautiful stories you share in the book. It’s one of the things I loved reading through it. And one story grabbed my attention in particular that you start at the beginning of the chapter about values of dealing with a situation where you were trying to retain the business of a disgruntled client. And I was wondering if you could share that story with us.

Anne Chow [00:02:24]:
Yeah. Absolutely. Thanks, Dave. This is one of, I think, one of the deepest memories of my 30 plus year career. You know, I’ve spent a huge portion of my career working with clients, in client facing roles, whether that was in sales or in service. And in this particular story, I was leading a sales organization. You know? And we’ve all heard the adage, no matter what business we’re in or know how big our business is, the customer is always right. Right? And many of us actually pride ourselves on leading organizations and creating cultures that are customer centric.

Anne Chow [00:02:54]:
In this case, my team was working with a client, and we had not done a good job with them in the past. In fact, we had made several errors in terms of how we serviced them, how we supported them, so much so that we had actually gone and changed out the entire account team. My team was having trouble with a key executive decision maker. He was the chief information officer, CIO. And they asked me to come in as the executive on the relationship to see if I could help them make progress with him because, their book of business was up for renewal. And it wasn’t a huge client, but it wasn’t a small one other. They did over $1,000,000 a year, in business with us. I’ll never forget that first meeting.

Anne Chow [00:03:36]:
We got together in a session, myself, this executive, the CIO, both of our teams. We went through our opening in terms of our apologies, our commitment to do better in our renewal proposal, talked about the support we would provide. And this client proceeded to unleash a set of profanities in a high level of aggression. In fact, I still have goosebumps when I think about it in language that I have quite frankly never heard in a professional setting. I was quite taken aback. It was clear that this was kind of how he had spoken with my team because he was very, very comfortable doing it. And I trumped this session up to well, maybe he had to grandson. Maybe he had to, in front of me, the executive on our end, put us in our place.

Anne Chow [00:04:23]:
So I tried a different strategy. I set up a 1 on 1 meeting with him thereafter and went through a similar calibration and he proceeded to be even more aggressive in this 1 on 1 conversation, this 1 on 1 meeting, using language like, you slipped me a Mickey, which was an implication that and I didn’t even know what that meant at the time, Dave, truth be told. But it was an implication that we were deceiving him all along and I let him rant for a little bit. And it was very clear to me in this one on one discussion that this was his style. This was his approach. Now preceding all of this, I will tell you, Dave, that as the leader of this organization, of the sales organization, one of our fundamental values that we had established at it as a team was respect. Respect for our client, respect for our partners, respect for each other, and respect for ourselves. Respect also happens to be a personal value of mine too.

Anne Chow [00:05:19]:
And in this discussion with this client where I was being berated and barraged, some of it, by the way, at the substance of it, we had failed him in our execution and our relationship, but nothing in my mind would warrant this kind of, language in a professional setting. So at the end of his rant, I proceeded to request of him that we elevate our conversation, that we handle each other in a more professional manner, and that if we were to move forward as partners, which we were certainly committed to doing, that I would ask that he apply respect to how he talked to me, but importantly, how he talked to, our collective team members. He was sort of reconciled at the end of that call. We ended the call. What proceeded to happen, he clearly didn’t like what I said. But what happened was we actually lost that business over time, which hurt, right? It hurt us as a sales team. It made it all the more difficult to make our numbers that year, but it was a demonstration of at the time. And then as I look at it back look at back at that experience clinically, it was all about me upholding our professional values as an organization and as a team, but also staying true to my personal values, which also included respect.

Anne Chow [00:06:33]:
You know, I didn’t realize what that action, in my case, as a leader of the team would do, but I earned an immense amount of trust and respect from my team because they knew that I had their back, that there was nothing more important than the respect for ourselves and the respect for each other, and that there was in fact a line in the sand to be drawn even with a customer, right, even with an existing customer, that I was willing as their leader to stand on our principles and the importance of respect as a core value. And what was really, really interesting about it was that, a couple of months later, 6 months later, that customer, that client was actually fired from his company. I can only imagine it was behavioral related. And, you know, we had an opportunity to come back into the customer relationship. You know, I look back on that though, Dave. This is a story about, an experience about personal and professional values. You know, when I, when I think about values, it’s often abstract. As you pointed out, we we talk about it, but we don’t really talk about it in the business environment.

Anne Chow [00:07:38]:
And I think it’s actually often easier to start with an understanding of your personal values because especially today, post pandemic, I think we as individuals would all say that we would prefer to work in an environment where the professional values of an organization better align with our personal values. And this was a this was a case where it was very, very clear to me what the right thing to do was because it was both personally appropriate and also professionally appropriate as it as it relates to living, the values that we stated.

Dave Stachowiak [00:08:11]:
Thank you for sharing the story. And as I think about it, I think, like, how many of us wish and desire to be the kind of leader that you were in that moment and that you are of, like, being able to in the midst of a very difficult situation to stand for what was right, the long term and the values. And I also, like, think back to situations I’ve been in and heard from clients over the years of, like, when you’re in that moment, when there’s dollars on the line, when there’s numbers that aren’t gonna be hit because you make a decision like that, It is so hard. The temptation is so strong to just say, well, maybe in this situation, like, we can navigate around it. And I think you said something there that was really key to I suspect what helped make this work in that situation for you is that you had already decided with the team of, like, one of the key values of helping people be safe and and respect in the organization. And I suspect that because you define that in advance, it made it a bit easier to make that call when you needed to.

Anne Chow [00:09:16]:
Yes. Very much so. You know, I’ve I’ve always said that one of the key roles of a leader. Right? If you choose to be a leader, one of the key aspects of your role is to ensure that your values, the professional values of your team, of your organization, of your company are stated, understood, and lived. Right? It’s not just enough to have some nice mantra or you know, hangings on the wall. You have to make sure that the behaviors are actually lived, not only by yourself, but all of those around you, which means you have to hold yourself and others accountable for embodying those values.

Dave Stachowiak [00:09:53]:
There are a couple of key distinctions that you highlight in the book that I just think are so critical for this. And one of the distinctions is values versus ideology. And I think oftentimes, we confuse these. Tell me about that distinction.

Anne Chow [00:10:10]:
Yeah. Absolutely. So think of values as the guiding principles of your life, first of all. Right? I I, you know, I mentioned a moment ago that sometimes it’s easier to start the discussion around values personally. Right? Because we all have a set of personal values that guide our actions and our decisions and even our words, right, at times. Those values might be if we think about them personally. Right? If I ask you to name your 5, you know, 5 of your personal values, I I suspect that one would be family, one would be, integrity or trust, one might be community. For some, it’s faith.

Anne Chow [00:10:45]:
Right? And so, you know, so for some, it’s service. So we we all have personal values. Now what professional values are are the pillars of the culture of your organization and team as a leader. So these are the guiding principles in the context of work that guide, again, your decisions, your actions, and your behaviors. That’s what your values are. They form your culture. So we as leaders, as people on teams, we wanna work in an environment where the alignment of values aligns with ours. Right? Who wants to work in an organization if a key value is integrity, where ethics are not upheld to the highest level? Now here’s the difference between values and ideology, Dave.

Anne Chow [00:11:28]:
And I’m so glad you brought this up because this to me is one of the key points that is a nuance that is so critical, but is in some ways being confused, I think, in facets of our society and world today and also in business, which is your ideology different than your values. It represents your beliefs. Now there are no 2 people in this entire world who are exactly the same. Even identical twins, while they may be the same on a DNA level, they have not had the same experiences and skills development, and so they do not share the same heart or the same mind. Right? And so no two people’s beliefs are exactly the same. Our beliefs are shaped by so many things. How we were raised, where we were raised, the media that we watch or listen to, the friends we have. Sometimes ideology is shaped by our religion, by our politics.

Anne Chow [00:12:19]:
It may be shaped by our workplace. Right? And our ideology represent our beliefs. It would be impossible to build a team, nor is it desirable, by the way, to build a team that has the exact same ideology? Why is that? Because the definition of leading bigger, the definition of true inclusive leadership is about widening your perspective to have greater performance and impact. You know, every great leader knows that you wanna surround yourself with a diversity of thought, a diversity of perspective, that you wanna compliment your weaknesses with others’ strengths. And so seeking common and striving for common values is different than seeking and striving for common ideology. If you are seeking common ideology, if you can envision this, you would be creating an echo chamber that was so large that you would not hear and see what is happening in the marketplace in terms of trends, what might be happening in terms of innovation, technological changes, societal changes. And so common ideology is not what you’re going for as a leader. You’re actually going for common values.

Anne Chow [00:13:32]:
So that is why it is so important, Dave, to, understand the difference between values and ideology and how you embrace them as a bigger leader.

Dave Stachowiak [00:13:42]:
Thinking about the person who may not have thought much about that distinction, which I think is probably a lot of us actually in practice. What would be an indicator if I’m leading a team that maybe I’m over indexing a bit on kind common ideology versus thinking about really from a value standpoint?

Anne Chow [00:14:06]:
Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. I this this is where I have always, as a leader, used my human resources team as a key partner. Right? I think it’s really, really important to constantly assess the slate of people who work for you and with you. Right? You know, whenever I would be going out to staff a new role on my team, I would do immense amount of due diligence with HR at my side on, okay, what are the backgrounds of the people that I’ve got? What are the what what are they what are they demographically, generationally, tenure wise? What kind of experience do they bring to the table? What kind of functional expertise do they have? And what is it that I am looking for to add diversification, add vitality into my team with a new hire? Right? So it is all of the above, Dave. You know, one of the one of the most simple things to do is, you know, is is even a visual check. Right? I’m a huge fan of this.

Anne Chow [00:14:59]:
Right? After all, we are all people. Right? Have you have you kind of pulled together a visual of your entire executive team, your entire team? You know, do you tend to have people who have gone to the same kinds of school, the same kinds of degrees? You know, have you looked at your board in a way, critically speaking, as it relates to various different demographics, tenure, experience set, right? What kinds of experiences are you looking for to bring in a different point of view, right? And what practical experiences do others have? So it is about checking yourself over and over again, but also having an external party. And I always use human resources as a key partner of mine, because oftentimes we are blinded by our unconscious bias, right? Each of us as humans, we have this desire to be comfortable and lean towards what is, more common to us, right? We’d like to find common ground, which is a natural human instinct. But sometimes that innate desire leads to inadvertent bias, whether it’s confirmation bias or affinity bias that we where we tend to like people who are like us, whether it’s personality style or otherwise. So those are just some of the tips that I would say that you should apply to yourself and the teams that you lead and the teams that you are looking to create and develop to ensure that they are the most, I would say, strategic and diverse in the biggest kind of way to help you achieve your your objectives.

Dave Stachowiak [00:16:34]:
Indeed. Yeah. One of the things that I found so useful in thinking about your writing on values is just some of the how to do it. Because I think, like, when we think about it, a word like values, it’s one of those things, like, we all really understand the importance of. I think we appreciate that that’s really critical. And yet we don’t really know where to start. Like, how do we actually begin that? And I love some of the invitations you make on just a bit of a process for doing this. And there’s a few steps you outline.

Dave Stachowiak [00:17:07]:
And one of the starting points is asking stakeholders to do some brainstorming individually. And one of the points you make at the starting point is that you wanna get a diverse group of people together to do this and not necessarily you don’t necessarily wanna ask for volunteers either, do you?

Anne Chow [00:17:26]:
Yeah. No. Right. Right. Right. And, Dave, the reason for that is you will naturally get the extroverts. Right? You will naturally get the people who volunteer for everything, who like to use their voice, who like to use their influence, and you will not necessarily get a, I would say, a balanced mixture of perspectives. Right? And, again, remember, my anchor on Leading Bigger, my anchor on inclusive leadership is all about widening your perspective, widening your perspective by surrounding yourself with different people, different information sources, different data sources than you would normally seek.

Anne Chow [00:18:01]:
Right? So, yes, that first step of asking stakeholders to brainstorm individually requires that you be thoughtful about the selection, that it is truly reflective of your priority set of stakeholders. So, of course, it’s going to be members from your workforce. Right? I mean, the members of your workforce, whether they’re employees or contractors or gig workers or key partners or key distributors, that workforce has to be the primary group where your values are stated, understood, and lived. Right? Because they are your business. Right? Your people are your business. Every business is a people business. The reason why I say this first step you wanna do individually is just the dynamic of group think, right, and group dynamics. Even if you’ve done a great job at selecting, let’s say, 10 people who are a excellent cross section of your stakeholders, there will be dominant personalities in a meeting dynamic.

Anne Chow [00:18:59]:
So really, in order to get the best, most thoughtful commentary from people as a starting point, you want to do that individually. And so that’s why I say you don’t wanna start out in a group conversation. I think this is actually a mistake that a lot of people make. And then the dominant personalities, the dominant roles. Right? Let’s say you have a customer in that group. You know, it’s gonna be inherent in your workforce’s behavior to defer to that customer and have that customer’s voice be the most dominant voice if you were to start in a group.

Dave Stachowiak [00:19:30]:
Yeah. Indeed. And I’m curious what you invite people to do individually because this is like, again, one of those things like values. Like, okay, where do I start with this? Like, thinking about this a a from myself first. When you’re making that invitation for people to brainstorm individually, what are you inviting them to do?

Anne Chow [00:19:50]:
Yeah. So first of all, when I do this, I start with the purpose and strategy of the business. Right? So what’s the purpose? Why do we exist? And getting people grounded on that. Right? Because if everybody understands and is aligned with that purpose, then the question around values that you ask them is, what kind of foundation of a culture do you want to have? Right? What are the key attributes of how we work together that will enable our success the most? Right? What are the things about how we work together? And, you know, what’s the compass for our behavior? What’s the compass for how we interact with each other? What’s the compass with how we interact internally and externally? What are the characteristics that we feel are so important for every single member of our team to embody and to live on a day to day basis in order for us to be most successful, right, in order for us to meet our goals, in order for us to deliver upon that purpose. Right? And I’ll give them examples. Right? When this seems abstract to people, I always bring them back to think about your personal values. Right? It’s very easy for each of us to think in our heads about what are our personal values. Right? It’s who we are.

Anne Chow [00:21:01]:
They represent who we are. They guide our actions. They make us us. So then I just take people to so all I’m asking are then, what are the professional values that you want, that you would be proud to embrace, right, that make us us as a team, that make us us as an organization, that make us us as a company. Right? That’s where you start. And when you articulate it that way, we all have personal values. So start there and expand that to your desired professional values in being part of this team.

Dave Stachowiak [00:21:33]:
Yeah. What a nice place to start in because, like you said, we all know that. So if you begin use that as a starting point, that then starts to cascade to, okay, what how do I want that to show up in the workplace? And then when you do bring people together for the group discussion, what does that look like?

Anne Chow [00:21:50]:
Yeah. So I, this is gonna show the fact that I’m a proud Gen Xer, Dave. So when I bring them together, this is sort of back in the day, if I could be so bold to say, you know, I’m a big fan of the, you know, of the Post it, the sticky note. And but I’m a big I’m a big fan of multivoting. Right? So when you bring them together, which is that second step, you you kinda consolidate everybody’s input, and you’ll see some themes. Right? One common theme that I’ve seen when I’ve I’ve done this this exercise, follow this process is some form of trust, integrity, ethics, character will come through. Right? In fact, almost every single time I’ve done this with a team of mine, those four words show up. Right? They are all around a similar theme, right, which is about integrity.

Anne Chow [00:22:38]:
Right? Or it is about respect. It is about ethics. It is about character. Right? The character of us as individuals, but the character of us as an organization and as a team. So you’ll see when you do this, you’ll see ways that will naturally consolidate some of these into certain categories. Right? Teamwork and collaboration are another one. Right? That that are similar in nature. And then I use those sticky notes with everybody to multivote.

Anne Chow [00:23:04]:
The process that I’ve used, which is I think is maybe old school now is, you know, everybody gets 3 post its, and you vote on your top 3. Right? And then you start seeing trends that come out of which ones are the most popular ones, namely where are people already aligned versus where they’re not. Now some folks may stop the multivoting there, but what I like to do is also take the tail, right, which is those value categories that didn’t receive a lot of votes. And I asked the handful of people who voted on those to talk about them and to talk about why those were particularly important in their exercise to make sure that I’m giving voice to not only the ones that are clearly the most popular, the most aligned, but also to make sure that we’re not missing something. Right? Because there are always words behind the the words. Right? There’s always something more behind it, and you wanna give people voice to make sure that they have articulated why this was so important. And in fact, on a scale basis, right, it’s not that as an example that, let’s say, inclusion isn’t the core value, but maybe it doesn’t rise up to the top five that you wanna codify. Right? May you know, maybe sustainability is not actually a core value.

Anne Chow [00:24:17]:
It’s an aspirational one because we’re not actually quite there yet. And so you might wanna reframe it differently when you’re boiling this down, you know, for ultimately, what you wanna project and embody across the organization. So this is where leadership discretion and leadership qualification comes in, is in that step of synthesizing the results and helping do some prioritization and categorization against your core values versus your aspirational ones.

Dave Stachowiak [00:24:43]:
Yeah. Indeed. And I think that leads right into the next step, which is gut checking your decision against reality. Right? And you write,, “There’s a difference between aspirational values and values you simply aren’t living up to, which is a sign of small leadership, which usually shows up in data and performance over time.” You’ve made that distinction between core and aspirational values. And and there is a there is a gut check that needs to happen here of, like, what are truly things that are aspirational values versus what are things that we’re just not doing. Right?

Anne Chow [00:25:14]:
Yes. Absolutely. In fact, you know, I’m working with a client right now who is very, very clear about their core values and aspirational values. They know that their core values are safety or inclusion or ethics, but they also know. Right? And they they have they are weighing these values all equally. Right? So these are the values of the company. They know their aspirational values are innovation and service because they know they have to elevate the level of service they’re providing out there in the marketplace. Right? I think that’s really quite enlightened, if you will.

Anne Chow [00:25:46]:
Right? So and so that that’s kind of the call that you’ve gotta make. And, again, to reinforce, what are your core values? The core values are the ones that you embody today. They guide your actions today. They make your organization your organization. They define. They serve as the pillars of your culture today. Your aspirational values are exactly that, what you aspire to have, but you don’t yet have. Common ones that tend to be in this aspirational category are innovation.

Anne Chow [00:26:11]:
Right? Maybe operational excellence, if your performance is not where it’s intended to be. Maybe customer excellence, if you’ve typically been an in inwardly focused organization and you have to do better as it relates to the marketplace. Right? So those are just some sort of helpful definitions and grounding on the difference between core and aspirational values for those listening here.

Dave Stachowiak [00:26:31]:
Yeah. And and then as you move into them, it’s measuring behaviors against the values. What’s an example of something you’ve seen where someone has done that well or an organization has done that well?

Anne Chow [00:26:45]:
Yeah. Absolutely. Okay. So first of all, the whole idea of measurement and measuring your behaviors against your values is paramount. Right? Coming from an engineering background, I have this belief that it is always a combination of science and serendipity. Right, whether it’s your career or whether it’s, you know, where you at personally, professionally. But I also have this belief fundamentally that you can only manage and monitor and importantly improve what you can measure, right, when you think about it. Right? So it’s a pretty strong statement on my part.

Anne Chow [00:27:13]:
Right? You can only monitor, manage, and improve what you can measure. Right? So you must be able to measure your behaviors against values. An example of a company that’s that’s that’s that’s doing this very well as it relates to making sure that they measure a value is around trust. Right? This is a company that is largely comprised of, union workforce, right, your frontline workforce. And there has historically been a chasm of trust, between management and union craft employees. So the leadership, the senior most leadership in this in this company, including the board, is highly committed to bringing those relationships together to rebuilding trust in a very, profound and measured way. To the point of measurements, the measurements include actual trust surveys that go out to all employees on a regular basis, action planning on addressing those areas of trust, whether it’s more training and development, more active communication to elevate the level of trust between union and management employees. Other key measurements around how is this working is the speed at which, you know, you come up with agreements around collective bargaining.

Anne Chow [00:28:30]:
Right? Does your union go on strike? Do they work without a contract? Or are you able to come up with contracts that are win win, right, to show your commitment to each other because you know how important each other are to moving the business forward? Right? So that is an example of doing it well, not just saying that trust is a foundational value, a core value, but measuring trust in many ways. Right? And that’s drilled down, not just at a corporate level, but by geography, by job title, by management functional hierarchy, so that the management team is actually monitoring, managing, and focusing on improving trust in all facets of their relationships with their people.

Dave Stachowiak [00:29:14]:
So often, we go through a process like this. We do a good or at least a decent job of identifying what’s important and outlining them and even starting to measure, and we don’t ever come back and do a review. And one of the key things you invite us to do is to review and update your values and metrics and to do that on some regular basis. What what’s one way that looks that makes that be valuable for an organization?

Anne Chow [00:29:43]:
Yeah. Absolutely. Now, Dave, so this is the last step if you envision in this virtuous cycle of reinforcing, calibrating, refreshing your values, right, on a regular basis. My belief as to why this last step, which is the circular step, which brings you back to step 1 again, is important is this. Remember what I said before, which is your values are the foundational pillars of your culture, and your culture is an integral part of your strategy. It’s not different than your strategy. Right? If you’re not thinking of your culture as part of your strategy, you’re making a mistake. Right? We’ve all heard that adage, culture eats strategy for breakfast, right?

Anne Chow [00:30:24]:
We also all have no doubt heard the stats, the facts around the biggest failure of M and A are culture related, whether they’re people related, leadership related, or otherwise, right, or goals misalignment. Right? That’s all in your culture. Right? So this is why you must revisit and review your values on a regular basis and your performance against the metrics. It’s because no leader would think, hey. You know what? I get to set a strategy today, and I don’t have to think about that strategy ever again. Right? That’s almost like, that’s that’s an idiotic statement, right, that I’m making. I set my strategy once. Right? And every business that I know that I’ve been part of relooks at their strategy at least once a year.

Anne Chow [00:31:08]:
Right? And that strategy may be a 3 year strategy, a 5 year strategy, a 10 year strategy. Right? But there’s a constant calibration against your strategy. So that’s how I would simply think about it. Right? Integral to your strategy are your financial plans, your operational plans. It should also include your cultural plan, right, which then ties back to your values, which underpin that culture. Right? And what that looks like is simply it’s done as part of the strategic planning process. You know, you may go through that strategic planning process, get clear on your financial objectives. Short and long term, get clear on your financial, your operational objectives and metrics, both short and long term.

Anne Chow [00:31:48]:
That third and last key piece is that cultural the cultural plan, right, which gets to your values. Do the values that I have today, do they serve us well? Are they sufficient to enable success against that financial operational, that strategic plan? If yes, both at the core and aspirational level, then you can keep your values the same and just think about how to refresh them in the context of your updated strategy. If no, then you just course correct and adjust.

Dave Stachowiak [00:32:18]:
Yeah. Indeed. I am curious as you have put together just such a helpful framework of thinking about this from a leadership lens. And you’ve shared this book with so many now and been speaking and consulting to organizations. I’m curious what, if anything, in doing this last couple years, have you changed your mind on?

Anne Chow [00:32:38]:
Yeah. Yeah. And Dave, I think, one of the areas that I have definitely changed my mind on or and, you know, I would say evolve my thinking on is this notion of generational diversity. Right? I I even popped up a, you know, a reference to a study that I read about the millennial and Gen Z, workforce, right, in terms of their alignment with purpose and their alignment with values. I probably fell into the trap. When I first embarked on writing this book, I fell into the camp of more generalized- I had generational beliefs, and I am the proud mom of 2 Gen Z daughters. So as a Gen Xer, right? I mean, I have lived as a parent sort of overseeing and supporting the lives of my 2 Gen Z daughters, one of who is in the workplace. Hopefully, one of who will be entering at some point next year after she graduates.

Anne Chow [00:33:28]:
So how I’ve evolved my point of view around this is I actually think that there’s a lazy behavior of leaders, and I was being lazy on this, that puts generation like, that looks at the workforce generationally into buckets. Right? Oh, well and this is actually an exercise I do with some of my students that I’ve done in some keynotes here. Right? What’s the one word that pops into your head when you think of Gen z? Right? Inevitably, words like lazy, entitled, not committed, right? Don’t like to come into the office, right? Come up. And as I’ve become more evolved, spoken to more people, learned more about people, Sometimes I think that we overgeneralize that generation is the reason for an attribute as opposed to realizing, you know what? Gen z grew up in a very, very different time. The tools in which they had how they think about work is fundamentally different. But at the core of it, they still want to work on meaningful work. It just shows up in a different way. And we as leaders should not take the lazy route of classifying people because of generation.

Anne Chow [00:34:35]:
So that’s what I’ve learned.

Dave Stachowiak [00:34:38]:
Anne Chow is the author of Lead Bigger: The Transformative Power of Inclusion. Anne, thank you so much for this work. I so appreciate it.

Anne Chow [00:34:46]:
Thanks, Dave. It was wonderful speaking with you.

Dave Stachowiak [00:34:55]:
If this conversation was helpful to you, 3 related episodes I’d recommend. One of them is episode 192, how to create team guidelines. Susan Gerke was my guest on that episode, and we talked through the how to that Anne and I discussed a bit in this conversation. When you get that group together and have that conversation, how do you actually do that step by step? We talked about the big picture in this conversation. But in episode 192, Susan and I walk through the details, whether it’s values, whether it’s creating team guidelines or expectations, how to actually do that step by step, episode 192 for more on that. Also recommended episode 6 16, how to discover what others value. Joe Hart was my guest on that episode, CEO of Dale Carnegie. We talked about when you’re in the situation where maybe you’re getting to know a new team member or a colleague or a peer, or it’s someone that maybe you’ve known for a while, but you don’t really know that much about them and what they value.

Dave Stachowiak [00:35:52]:
How do you actually go about that? Well, it’s not just walking up to them and saying, what are your values? That’d be a little awkward. Right? And most people, even if they answer that question genuinely, have a hard time answering that question. Joe and I actually talked through what are the kinds of ways you can find out what others value by following the process, by listening well, and by asking the right questions. Episode 616, exactly how to do that step by step. And then finally, I’d recommend episode 660, how to prevent a team from repeating mistakes. Robert “Cujo” Teschner was my guest on that episode, former head of debriefing for the US Air Force. We talked about the process of the debrief and how important it is for teams in almost every organization to do better. So many of us do not ever do that.

Dave Stachowiak [00:36:42]:
We set up a project. We execute on it. We, look at the results, and then we move on to the next thing. But we don’t think about what we need to do to revisit. So we learn the mistakes to not repeat them in the future. So important for values, but critical for almost every aspect of organizational life. We talk in episode 660 exactly where to begin on, beginning to do a bit of a debrief. I’ve been doing that in our business over the last year, and it’s made a big difference on starting to debrief things, inspired by Kujo’s message last year.

Dave Stachowiak [00:37:15]:
Again, that’s episode 660. All of those episodes you can find on the coachingforleaders.com website. And if you have not done so before, I’d invite you today to set up your free membership at coaching for leaders.com. The reason you’d like to do that is because it’s gonna give you access to the entire library of episodes that I’ve heard since 2011, searchable by topic. Now all of those episodes are freely available on all the podcast apps anywhere, and you can easily track them down. But you can’t always find the topic you’re looking for on the podcast apps. That’s why we have created the free membership. One of many reasons.

Dave Stachowiak [00:37:52]:
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Dave Stachowiak [00:38:42]:
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Dave Stachowiak [00:39:34]:
Have a great week, and see you back Monday.